Shifting My Mindset

While I was pregnant, I envisioned the life I wanted to have for my daughter. It was imperative that she grow up in a two parent household, just as I did, and that I would do every thing in my power to create the very best life for her, full of exciting experiences that would last a lifetime.

When my daughter almost lost her life, all of my plans came shattering down.

I could no longer envision spending the afternoon at the beach, races in the backyard, baking cakes together, and mommy daughter dates. I was so saddened by the thought that her quality of life would forever be changed.

As I am continuing to learn and grow throughout our journey together, I now realize that “quality of life” can mean many different things. Just because my daughter can not do most things, does not mean I have not created a wonderful life for her. She has a smile and laugh that lights up the room and everyone's heart in it. That is my new measure. The love I have for her is tangible and I know she feels it by how joyous she is, despite all she has to go through.

I can imagine that there are many other parents and caregivers who struggle with this. Getting creative can get tricky when you are so busy. Not to mention, how harsh and cruel the world can be when you are in a public place and bystanders dart looks your way when your child does not look or is as developed as theirs.

With that, I have decided that I can still create exciting experiences and lasting memories with her. The key word here is modification. I am challenged to no longer use my daughter’s disabilities as an excuse to miss out on life that is waiting for us to live!

I will find creative ways to modify every day activities to engage with my daughter and share them with you, here! This is all about making meaningful memories and strengthening the bond with your child.

If you would like to participate and be featured here on the site for the Shift Series, email me at contact@sixthird.com. I’m eager to hear from you!

xoxo

Gaebrielle